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a requiem for my [un]beautiful body

by Ravin


I’ve learned to hide shame 

in the folds of my skin

To curse my round middle and double chin

Only to be told that I am beautiful

Yet the measure of my beauty seemed 

to be weighed on broken scales

I’ve been nurtured to value only

That which can be objectified

To celebrate only 

What can be lusted after 

But not to despair


Because I could choose

Not to care

To defy the measure that was handed

To declare my body beautiful

Yet soon I found

This declaration was only a claim

That I too, am worthy of objectification 

An affirmation

Of what I learned before

Disguised in disregard 


But maybe I’ve been lost in the fog of a lie

Maybe the marks on my skin

Are not tiger stripes

But simply a mark that I am stretched

A reminder of the One whose image I bear

Who was also stretched

The One who is Beauty 

and yet was not beautiful


This body, unremarkable and unbeautiful,

Is set apart

Marked by a beauty of a different order

Not one that accesses value

By the acceptance of others

Not one that is loud

In its reckless indifference 

But one that was 

forged and fashioned 

for another

Intricately designed to be

Self-giving



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